Originally Posted by jipped genes
my wife is on an SSRI and it absolutely killed her sex drive. she would give it to me any time I want it but i would rather handle it myself than bang a warm corpse.
and i have sporadic sex drive. i have a cold right now and have been taking zinc. so now for some reason (zinc is all i can think because I feel horrible) I sex drive is up where i feel it should be and the chances of her actually enjoying it have diminished drastically as who would want a sniffling snotty coughing guy on top of them?
man the SSRI's are hell on sex. either no sex drive or normal sexdrive with an inability to orgasm, etc
well here is some advice. do something nice for her that takes physical work and contact. like a back rub or something. compare it to sex. then talk about how she could at least pretend to enjoy it for you as it doesnt take all day and is not terribly hard work. then ask her if there is anything that you can do that she can still enjoy. as far as sporadic sex drive let me hypothesize on that. with no stimulus you are shutting it down until it gets overflowed or something stimulates you like a movie or a pic or something. are you on trt or anything?